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then reinstate it at a later time you will need to start again. We cannot refund payment made- it is your
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Notes
- What happens after I have paid the FSDW
subscription fee:
Subscribers are offered a free message on the boards- and can access
the database of over 1200 sperm donors for as long as they
keep their subscription current.
Non-registered FSDW donor can contact you through the
public message boards.
Set up a hotmail address just for this purpose and to protect yourself.
Do not give out too much personal information at the beginning.
You will be sent login details, and then have access to the database of sperm donors- and can update info in your profile, add photos etc.
There is an internal messaging system
- you can use that to send and receive messages, or click on the bottom of their profile and this email is sent directly to them (you dont see their email address) They will see the email address you specify. You will then start corresponding. If something doesnt feel right trust you instinct- and let me know if any donors appear to want payment or sex. That would be in breach of our Behaviour Code.
Sperm donors register, offering to donate without charge, and as such will want to find a suitable match in the same way you do - so if you use this site please do accept that it may take time to find the right one, and you will need to have lots of patience. Put as much info in your profile as possible, so that donors can get an idea of your personality and the type of arrangement you are looking for. We ask all donors to at least reply with a polite 'sorry, I cant help you' if this is the case- however if donors fail to respond, or respond inappropriately, please do let us know. It is by using member feedback that I can monitor what is going on and try to keep the site a safe and respectful place to correspond with one another.
Members can also use a free legal document outlining their agreed arrangement with donor
- just get this signed and notarised to clearly state your intention.
When you think you have found the 'right donor' you need to decide what tests etc you require- and there are usually places you can get your donor tested for free- eg in the UK you just got to your local NHS GU clinic for same day testing and results. Some of our sperm donors are registered with sperm banks and have that info.
When you are happy that all is going to your satisfaction you will need to make your arrangement re collection of fresh sperm ready for self-insemination, or make an arrangement with him to donate to a clinic. If you meet him in person to collect fresh sperm ideally you need to inseminate twice within the 48 hours prior to ovulation. There are only a few days in your cycle when it is possible to become pregnant. Please do not waste your donor's time- monitor your cycle prior to starting
insemination meetings.
Most members arrange to meet their donor at a safe place, where he will ejaculate in another room, and then offer you the fresh sperm in a wide rimmed plastic container and leave. Take someone with you. Wait until the sperm has gone from cloudy to clear and inseminate with plastic syringe as quickly as possible. Read Self-insemination info on the site or buy a self-insemination kit from DIY Baby.
All you really need is a plastic cup and syringe - get these
from your local chemist. If he donates to a clinic the sperm will be quarantined for six months to be sure it is safe with regards to HIV etc-ask for options at your local sperm bank/ clinic. Many of our members use this site as they would prefer to know something about the biological father of their child- even if there is no active involvement. Members usually choose a donor who closely resemble someone they would date, or would be freinds with. You cant get that information from a sperm donor catalogue.
Through FSDW we offer choices.
The site is maintained using subscription fees- and so I do not issue refunds unless a donor you wanted to contact (on the public pages) is no longer listed in the members area. On occasion donors delete their profiles and dont let me know, although this doesnt happen often.
Please note that this is very similar to a dating site- I can't guarantee anything, and please do consider if this is really right for you!
If not you may wish to use a sperm bank - many are listed in the
Sperm donation directory and will be listed more comprehensively on
my new DIY Baby web site.
Em:-)
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Welcome Baby Jake
Congrats to L and C!
(hes gorgeous!!)
 
Hi there here are as
promised some photos of us and our little boy who we
have called Jake. He was
born weighing 9lb 9oz which was quite a shock as im
only little, hence i needed a caesarian section but it has
all been worth it as we have such a beautiful, happy and contented baby who has
made our life so complete. Nothing can compare to the feeling i have when I hold
him and he looks at me
with his gorgeous smile.
I know the midwives say
you have to wait till 6 weeks before they smile but
honestly he smiled the first
day he was born and does everyday. He totally amazes
me everyday and I feel so blessed to have the
opportunity to be a parent.
I hope that everyone has the chance on FSDW to have a baby. Its the best thing
in the world.
Thank you again,
L******, C***** and Jake x x
We are often asked why
FSDW donor donate without fees
- this is what
one of
them said :
"It is the most amazing
feeling, and the genuine
donors that I talk to share
the same highs and lows
with the girl at the end of the dreaded 2 week wait...".
I am attaching a picture of I*******, she was my first success at AI, again thanks
to your wonderful website.
Thanks
(donor name removed)
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Hi Emma and Team.
I wish to ask you to cancel my subscription, as after 12 months of very careful planning and testing, I am now pregnant. Thanks for providing a site
such as this
Hi,
Several months ago I listed
an ad with your website. I was fortunate enough
to find a donor and am now
5 1/2 months pregnant!
Thank you!
Hi, i just want to say
thankyou! i am in a same sex relationship and
thought it
would be along time and alot of money before i had a child but
after the first attempt of AI
through your site i am now 6 weeks pregnant!
Thankyou so much for
giving
women like us a
chance to have what we
want
more than anything!
S and C.
Hi FSDW,
Just to let you know that I
now have a baby on the
way thanks to FSDW .
Anyway, I'm now back in the
dating game, which I dont
think really mixes with
donating, so please if you could delete my profile - ***
Thank you very much, I did
want another child & it has
made both me & my recipient very happy. I have also met a
number of very nice people
in the process. Obviously I
may come back at
some time in the future,
but at the moment
I'm 'otherwise occupied
Hi
Em,
We
are very happy with
the service from you and
the website.
Within half an
hour of our ad going on the
website
we found a
suitable donor. We did
get quite a few
responses
but we used the first contact
made as he
was the most
suitable. After two
attempts
we are now
4 weeks pregnant
we are
over the moon it has taken
us 7 years to get
here. We cannot thank you and the website for our
miracle. It
is still early and we will
keep you informed
of how it goes.
Kind
Regards, M& T.
Baby girl born Dec 2006! .
Read their story in the
Daily Mail
Hi
Emma,
Thanks to your site, I'm now pregnant. I found a suitable
donor straight away and
luckily first insemination
proved successful. really
thrilled and it's down to
your site putting me in
contact with my donor.
i could
have waited absolutely ages
through a private clinic,
not to mention the price
i could have paid. once again,
thank you so much
!
'
Hi Emma, Just thought i
would let you know that i
did two pregnancy tests today and they were both positive!!
After only one try at AI. I am
still not 100% convinced
that i am actually pregnant,
they were faint lines, but
they were there and i know
its rare to get a false positive.
I'm going to have to another
test in a couple of days to
make sure.
I cant thank you enough
for your website, what you do
is amazing for so many of us.
Thank you so so much.
Amy
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I
get masses of
emails
like these!
It's
why I keep the
site going! A huge
thanks to all the
wonderful FSDW donors!! Em x
We are discontinuing our account at this time as we
have found an amazing donor (*****) who is willing to help both of us get pregnant. We have timed our ovulation and will be meeting for our first try this week. Thank you so much! We will let you know when we have success!!!
Thank you,
M and T
Hi Emma,
I want to say im sooooo
proud of what you are doing. You dont know the happiness you bring to peoples lives.
I couldnt have afforded the
cost of the sperm centres
fees and so wouldnt have
been able to get another baby ever.You have given me
the chance to hopefully have one more baby before
its too late. Ive waited 16
yrs to find the right man and couldnt so my son who
is 16 has no genetic siblings. My dad has only 2
grandkids out of his four daughters so im happy
and he will be too that he
will have another grandchild
.I just joined last week
and think I have already
found a donor in portugal
who is willing to travel here in oct for donation. ...
After meeting & being let
down 6 times by donors I thought I would never find
one I was very low and then I meet a donor who just
saved me who has helpt
me so much I am due to have my baby any day now and
its all thanks to a great donor and your site and I would
like to say to members
out there who are thinking of given up to stay hopefull
the site doese work !!
. there
are good donors
out there thankyou to you for helping get my dream
maria
We joined your site
two months ago. Found the perfect donor. And
have just discovered.......
.after the second attempt
A BABY IS ON THE WAY!!!!!!!
Can't thank you enough
for startinghis site.
After 6 heartbreaking
years of trying......never
thought it could be so easy.
hello Emma,
Im from Western Australia.
(donor name removed)
did it for us!
I couldn't me happier
with your services.
I am 2-3 weeks pregnant
as a result!
Em,
Thank you ! We found our perfect donor on your site
and we started trying
for a baby last month. I
will let you know how successful we are, but in
the
meantime we are very greatful for getting this far.
T
hi
just to let you know
things have worked out for
me i am now pregnant after
a first go at meeting a
donor at your web site
L
Hi Emma- just a quick message to let you know
that after getting in touch with our donor through your
site we are now pregnant. Thank you so much for the worthwhile work you do.
R and J x
Hi Emma, hope you are well,
Just thought we best update you with our progress, We thankyou very much from the bottom of our hearts, we are pregnant after our first
attempt, and today it was confirmed my partner
is carrying twins. Thankyou is not a strong enough word we can use. Our donor was excellent and we have be able to build up a great raport with him. Once again this service you provide has helped us achieve our dream.C and A
Hi Emma,
I should have emailed
before now but I have
been very
busy with our beautiful 6 month old son. Thanks to
your hard
work we found a genuine
donor and our son
is
everything we could have wished for and more. Our
donor has also offered to
help us again
in the future
with a sibling for our son and to complete
our family.
We can't begin to
thank you enough
THANK YOU
Sarah (London)
Hi
there,
I
would like to send you
my thanks on behalf of
myself
, the gay couple I
helped
and our
son who
was
born a few days ago,
Your work is really important and helped us all achieve
something in our lives
which we wanted so
very much.
Thanks again
and all the best to your
organisation
for the future.
D
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Join Free Sperm Donations Worldwide and access the database of over 1100 private sperm donors, all willing to
donate fresh sperm for home self-insemination, without charges or fees. Some also donate to sperm banks and can
arrange for shipping.
You only cover out of packet expenses.
Your chosen donor can get tested for STDs and HIV etc privately or if you are in the UK your local NHS GU clinic will
offer same day free testing.
Use the free documents in the members only area to make a written record of your arrangement and get this notarised
by a solicitor so that your agreement and intention is clearly defined.
When you have chosen your donor and are clear with regards to your arrangement meet him on your most fertile days
to collect fresh sperm for self-insemination or make an arrangement that he donates to a local sperm bank for your use.
Top Tips for Getting Pregnant Using Self-Insemination
What is self insemination?
DIY (do-it-yourself) or self-insemination, is a method in which the woman (or her partner )
inserts semen into the vagina herself,
without medical assistance. This is surprisingly easy - and a useful technique
for single women, lesbian and
infertile couples, and heterosexual couples with sexual dysfunction.
How to self-inseminate - what is needed
The most important ingredient is freshly ejaculated semen that is inseminated within 90 minutes max).
Ask your donor to ejaculate in a clean glass or plastic container. Make sure this is wide-mouthed,
so it’s easier for him to aim accurately – you want it all!
You can also use frozen semen samples from a sperm bank, after allowing them to thaw at room temperature.
Visit our Directory for listings of sperm banks - usually in the USA- that will ship overseas if you live outside of the US
After the semen sample has liquefied (this takes about 30 minutes), you are now ready to self-inseminate.
Suck up the semen sample into a 10-ml plastic disposable syringe (without a needle) or use a turkey baster
- although the small amount of semen does not require such a large instrument.
The semen now needs to be squirted into the vagina- and as this is sometimes tricky you may want to have
practised this a few times first- using water. . You need to lie on a bed, with your knees and thighs bent, and
your knees wide apart. Guides the tip of the syringe into the vagina and put the syringe in as deep as you can
before plunging the barrel, depositing the semen into the vagina. Ideally you should try to have an orgasm during
the process- by stimulating the clitoris- not through penetration or insertion of anything such as a vibrator.
The only thing to go inside the vagina is the syringe!
You may find it easier to lie on the edge of the bed, with a pillow under hips so that your hips protrude over the edge
while
you undertake the procedure . You can remain lying on your back for about ten minutes, after which you can
resume normal activity. Some of the semen will leak out, and this is normal.
While using a speculum is not essential, it can help, because it makes it easier to inject the semen at the mouth of the
uterus (the cervix). You can use a disposable plastic speculum, and when you insert the speculum, make sure the
blades are closed. You can slide it in upwards, or else sideways, turning it when it has been pushed all the way into your
vagina. When the handles are above your pubic bone, squeeze them together, which will open your vaginal walls. You will hear
a click when the speculum is locked open. If you are inseminating with a partner s/he will be able to see your cervix, which is
round and pink with an opening (the os) in the middle. The mucus may appear as a clear bubble, or a thread like raw egg white.
You can use a mirror to see what’s going on for yourself, if you so desire! After the insemination, make sure that you
release the handles and collapse the blades before removing it from your vagina.
Some women use a cup or cap for self-insemination. Rubber cervical caps are designed for contraception (hence the name "cap")
but they can be used for insemination. There is also a cervical cup especially designed for insemination, which is slightly
larger and more shallow, the name "cup" indicating that it serves as a semen receptacle. You simply squat down, check the
position of your cervix, and insert the cap containing the semen in that direction, holding it upright at all times. Check all around
the top of your vagina to make sure that you didn’t miss you cervix. The cup can be removed after several hours. Take care to
break the suction by hooking a finger over the edge of it before trying to pull it out.
Timing the procedure is extremely important, because you need to inseminate during your "fertile period".
Fortunately, it’s quite easy to determine when you ovulate, and you can either monitor your
cervical mucus, or use an ovulation prediction kit.
All of the items needs are included in the DIY Baby kit - available online from next month
More Fertility Tips and Info Can Be Found Here
Sperm donor database of private sperm donors willing to donate fresh sperm for self-insemination to single women, infertile
and lesbian couples. Fertility Choices is an expansion of Free Sperm Donations and not only offer helps to women
looking for
sperm donation in the UK, USA, Australia, New Zealand and Canada, but also to help women and infertile
couples wanting free information
tips and advice about egg donation, surrogacy and adoption.
Find a sperm donor- assisted pregnancy- alternative parenting - Free Sperm Donation Directory - Fertility Choices!
Subscribe as a FSDW member on this page if you are looking for a sperm donor and
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