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FSDW/ DIY Baby™ - Created by 'The Child Listener™ in 2004.

Although controversial, Emma felt that many women and couples who wanted desperately to be a parent- and would make wonderful parents!- were limited in their choices, because of marital status, sexuality, fertility issues & more. She didn't feel this was fair.
FSDW offers choices- and not just for women- it is also proving successful for men wanting to co-parent!

With the abolishment of sperm donor anonymity within the UK at that time there was a decrease in available sperm.
Emma knew that many men still wanted to help- but without the knowledge that a child - or children- could come knocking on their door at aged 18. She felt that there had to be an alternative- and especially as women and infertile couples were finding other ways to become pregnant that were risky and often a recipe for disaster. The safe, socially acceptable route - ie through a clinic - was
often unavailable - or the process too costly, intrusive or lengthy- for many women and couples.

She decided, therefore, to create FSDW -as a way
for men to be able to make choices with regards to donation- ie who they donate to and on what terms. She wanted to offer a place for kind, honourable men to connect with women, and to
make their own arrangements, and to ncourage all parties to consider the best interest of the child. With IVF the child will not know his or her father- until the age of 18. While that may work for many- it isn't the best arrangement for others. Through FSDW many donors play an 'uncle' type role, and some would even wish to co-parent. Is this not of benefit to the child in many situations? A child born from sperm donation - where neither parent or child know anything about each other - can cause all
sorts of emotionally problems.

This topic is a difficult one- and there is
no 'right' or 'wrong' answer. However Emma's concern was that so many women seemed to be choosing one night stands, or making choices egarding pregnancy- without a discussion with the man involved, before the conception occurred. Men could find themselves being chased for child support - whereas the
FSDW donors and women / couples who use
this service tend to really want this- and take
a much more responsible, educated approach
to the matter. Both parties are in agreement BEFORE conception - reducing potential problems in the future.

Of course there are more risks when choosing this route - legal issues (discussed on our free info pages) health issues (HIV can fail to show up in a test- and show up six months later - which is why frozen sperm is quarantined) and more. So,
as well as offering people choices, Emma has tried to offer guidance and support, so that people can at least reduce the risks as best they can if they decide they want to choose this route.
Information about sperm donor testing is available, donor agreement documents available, including information about
getting pregnant as quickly as possible- not just for the mother's sake- but also so that time is not wasted on the part of the donor.
These donors all register to donate without charge, AI only, and so it is the responsibility of the recipients to do her part to facilitate a quick conception.

Emma personally replies to all emails- and offers advice regarding meeting the emotional needs of children born form sperm donation- when and how to
tell them, what issues they should consider and work through and more.

This all takes alot of time and effort - which is why, in part, subscription fees are charged. However she strongly believes that if this was offered for free- the connections part of this
service- then women who have not really considered this fully, might decide to 'just give it a go'. Charging a membership fee won't stop that- but it will make some women stop and
think before proceeding.
Membership fees are in line with dating site membership fees- even though the potential rewards are arguable worth far more. Of
course sperm donors aren't charged- why would we charge these amazing men- who are helping so many women and infertile couples
fulfil their dream of being a parent? However FSDW donors- and women- are obliged to conduct themselves honourably- and to
abide by the behaviour code. We have such a supportive members area- with blogs posted etc- that when members post anything in the slightest bit offensive, or donors seem to suggest there are looking for sex, or payment, they are immediately bumped off. As Emma moderates the site herself, standards are high- and this is why FSDW remains the most popular private sperm donation connections web site on the internet. Almost 1800 successful pregnancies since 2004 with over 2800 registered donors! Many of our testimonials shown below. We hope you'll be sending us your success story too.

If you have any questions, please email Emma
- info@free-sperm-donations.com

Emma - who is British- is now living and working in sunny Queensland Australia- and writing a book as 'The Child Listener™ . She is creating resources for parents who would like to raise their child or children with emotional intelligence, and also for those wishing to know how to teach their children to read and spell before starting school through her Parents Aboard Program- part of Read Australia™

Today there are around 1100 UK donors, 960 USA donors, 325 Australian donors, 160 Canadian donors, 90 New Zealand donors and 300+ donors in other countries, registered within the Member's Only area waiting to hear from single women, lesbian and infertile couples! Over 2800 registered! Contact them directly today! .
You also get a FREE message on the public 'sperm donor/ co-parenting wanted boards' Good Luck Everyone!

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You also get a FREE message on the public 'sperm donor/
co-parenting wanted boards'
when you join as a member
Good Luck Everyone!

FSDW members want to become pregnant through sperm donation - DIY Baby™! - women and infertile couples subscribe as they want to find a sperm donor for private sperm donation, or who will offer their sperm for IVF at a clinic. They may want find a sperm donor for shared parenting (co-parenting) - or to find someone who wants no contact post conception ie anonymous sperm donations. You work out your own arrangement- because how you do this is up to you!
All we ask is that you abide by our Behaviour Code and ensure that you have fully researched your decision and feel ready to not only become pregnant, but also to meet the emotional, physical and financial needs of a child.
FSDW help you connect- you do the rest! Anonymous sperm donation, 'uncle'
type role, even co-parenting- you decide - start by connecting here, in the
FSDW Members Only Area

Testimonials

Dear Emma,
Well here we are, at the end of 2009, a strange year, nerve wracking year, but a wonderful year.
It was a year ago that I made the decision to join your site, at 34 knowing I was ready to become a Mum.  I was amazed at the response, but to me I knew I had to find the right donor for this to work, not down to characteristics but just a feeling..
On January 4th I had an email from someone, who was outside my age bracket that I was searching in, from another country (i'm in the UK and he was in Canada) but something was very easy & after a couple of emails it was very apparent, if I was to go ahead with this whole process, he was the one. Luckily he felt the same way about me, after choosing who he wanted to help very carefully, and had been registered for some time.
So In May, we met for the first time as he was in the UK, my dates weren't quite right, ovulation happened 2 days prior to his arrival. In June we tried again, but again the dates were only just within the fertile window, but it was third time lucky when I fell pregnant when he was back in the UK in July.
I'm now 25 weeks through, we have an amazing friendship for life - he has mde this a very positive and amazing journey so far. 
So I just want to say to anyone, be open in what you think you are looking for, find the RIGHT donor and don't base that on geography alone.
So Thank you Emma, for your wonderful site, without it, I wouldn't be pregnant now & I woudln't have met this wonderful, generous man who will be a friend for life.....
All the best
H***

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A few FSDW success stories!

Hi Emma- just a quick message to let you know that after getting in touch with our donor through your site we are now pregnant.
Thank you so much for the worthwhile
work you do.

R and J x

Hi Emma

Just a quick note to say we are now cancelling our membership. We registered in January and after a few emails with donors we  met a very genuine donor who has agreed to helping us start AI in June this year so fingers crossed all will go well.

Thank you for giving us the opportunity via your website to find a suitable donor. 

V + A

Hi Emma, hope you are well,  Just thought we best update you with our progress,  We thankyou very much from the bottom of our hearts, we are pregnant after our first attempt, and today it was confirmed my partner is carrying twins. 
Thankyou is not a strong enough word we can use.  Our donor was excellent
and we have be able to build up a great raport with him. Once again
this service you provide has helped us achieve our dream .C and A

Hi there,
I would like to send you my thanks on behalf of myself , the gay couple I helped and our son who was born a few days ago, Your work is really important and helped us all achieve something in our lives which we wanted so very much.
Thanks again and all the best to your organisation for the future. D

Hi Emma, I just wanted to let you know that I wish to cancel my subscription to your profiles site for now as we have succesfully found a suitable donor (Yay!!) I'm so pleased and cannot wait to get started!!!
I have some more tests to complete at the doctors and will then be ready to get going,
I may purchase the fertile focus thingy at some point soon....
Please could you take my name off the list when this months subscription is up.
Many thanks for your help, I couldn't believe a site like this existed at first, it's superb
S and M xxx

Emma, I thought you might like an update, which i have only just got round to now because i have been so busy with my little girl. **** was born on ***** and is now nearly 3 months old. I cannot decribe how happy i am, she is just perfect and her big brother adores her! It is thanks to this website where i found the right donor, who is also very happy to have given our family a little girl, and we will remain friends. Thank you so so much.
 
Please feel free to show this
on your site, if you do i would also like to say, congratulations to everyone who has become a parent through using this site and lots of luck to those still waiting.  
from A.

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