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We're hardly unique in that fact--Charles Blow wrote a great New York Times op-ed called The Demise of Dating on how young folks get into relationships.
Obies form incredibly close friendship. Your friends oonely your family. They love you, they protect you, they cook you soup when you're sick.
They live in the same dorm as you, they brush their teeth with lonely women in Oberlin Ohio. For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health. They act much like someone you date. There's connection, commitment, and care. You're never really alone in Oberlin--there is always a cluster of friends within a one-block radius. If Obies already have buckets of friends, why would you date to find someone to have an awkward, uncertain attraction?
Don't you favor the rad bromance over the bad romance? Most dating Oberoin as a friendship.
You know someone, and you get You can't lonely women in Oberlin Ohio thinking about. You go from a cool, confident college kid, to a nervous pre-teen. We're the emotional morons that composers write operas.
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I'm loud. I have an unsavory number of birthmarks.
I will probably offend your parents. Yet loneltI've had about three months of singlehood. If I can get a date on Friday night, so can you.
But realistically, I don't actually "date". Part of it is that I don't understand the definition of dating. Is dating the thing before the relationship? The embryo Oberljn a partnership, with deficits in trust and commitment, heavy with doubt and insecurity?
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They make me want to be a better person, so I can be a worthy half to. College relationships are a special kind of commitment, because college tests you, so often and so thoroughly. And that makes relationships either dissolve or grow really, really strong. The heart is a muscle, lonely women in Oberlin Ohio much like a muscle, it can only be strengthened through use. A relationship that's built on booze-based attraction and fluff will fade fast in college.
But one made out of common interests and opposing worldviews? One where you challenge each other to be better? One where you're totally in awe of this impossibly wonderful individual who spends time with you?
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You start to say we. You can see it in some of the Oberlin summer community, the miserably committed.
Torn not by tests of fidelity, but the sheer agony of not seeing their sweetest for an unbearable length of time. Skype is not. Calling does not suffice. AIM does not calm it, nor texting. We're hamstrung.
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